Groupie

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  The first time I heard this word was when Drake called someone a groupie in one of his songs, I did not check for the meaning until an influencer talked about it recently The google definitions are too extreme and derogatory but in the context of what I'm talking about a groupie can be someone who always wants to be with the "happening guys". After pondering about it for a couple of days I realized we might be and this mentee, mentor, networking, your association rave in Nigeria might have turned most of us to “groupies” in a way. The need to follow the latest popping person, enter their dms and introduce yourself, ask them to mentor you or to just be able to say I know them, bla bla bla   is turning some of us into something else I don’t have much to say but I pray we remember that as we appreciate the light in others, their talents and gifts, we'll never  lose sight of the light, talents and gifts we carry too. Appreciate them but focus on making your light
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Romantic Novels and I

 

Growing up I had a lot of sisters and one in particular was almost addicted to romantic novels. As someone that shared her love for books, I started to read them without her permission and those books made my imaginations go places I could not tell anyone and after burning several novels(my efforts to stop reading them),I finally got free in SS1 and since then till 500 level, at the sight of brown paper, I  RUN.

Some weeks ago, I walked into my course mate’s room and saw two romantic novels, I shared my experience and applauded myself when I felt no temptation to go back to them. Today, I had a really rough day, and I just wanted something to take my mind off things. So I went to my course mates room, picked one book “I have a bible full of stories on my bed but it’s the novel I went for, mtcheww” and started reading, in less than 20 minutes your girl was done with the book.

How?

Well, the things that made blood rush through my veins, pissed me off. I mean the love was so predictable and they were more about physical attraction than anything else. In conclusion, it’s either my romantic veins are dead or my mind has upgraded to see that the love these books portray are not realistic, love is work dears

I deserve a money cake for my victory but later.


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