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Groupie

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  The first time I heard this word was when Drake called someone a groupie in one of his songs, I did not check for the meaning until an influencer talked about it recently The google definitions are too extreme and derogatory but in the context of what I'm talking about a groupie can be someone who always wants to be with the "happening guys". After pondering about it for a couple of days I realized we might be and this mentee, mentor, networking, your association rave in Nigeria might have turned most of us to “groupies” in a way. The need to follow the latest popping person, enter their dms and introduce yourself, ask them to mentor you or to just be able to say I know them, bla bla bla   is turning some of us into something else I don’t have much to say but I pray we remember that as we appreciate the light in others, their talents and gifts, we'll never  lose sight of the light, talents and gifts we carry too. Appreciate them but focus on making your light

I FAILED AGAIN

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  Hmmm, I just checked my financials i.e. how I spent my income this month and my heart is broken💔😩, why won’t these tears😭 just come out? How did I end up making a mistake as big as this? Apparently I spent all my income without saving anything, instead I touched my savings. To feel better, I want to think of the savings spent as emergency fund, started listening to grown woman by Beyoncé but right now I don’t want to grow(adulting is the biggest scam😒), switched to miracles by Sia,it says …If you wanna beat your chest 'cause you feel the emptiness Go on and feel your loneliness Go on and feel your loneliness Then call me 'cause we're both in this… The song was made for times like this. Putting my stomach in the bank seems like the solution to this money allocation issue. I invested in skincare, at the time it made sense but now it makes no sense. For next month, I’m tempted to pay no tithe but I will (it’s a plus not a minus), torn between applauding mysel